She’s loud
She’s a talker
She’s a hugger
She’s a listener
She’s a light to you and others
She loves Disney
She loves ice cream
She sends you flowers
She’ll call to say hello
She’ll watch your kids
She’ll love on your kids
She’ll take selfies with you
She’ll text funny memes/gifs
She’ll drive you to/from airport
She’ll get muddy/tye dyed with you
She’ll send you a card ‘just because’
She’ll call to say how proud of you she is
She’ll share her love of Hallmark movies
She’ll cook for you and leave out the onions
She’ll sit next to you in church if you’re alone
She’ll text ‘love you’ without expecting a reply
She’ll make room in her row for you to sit with her
She’ll sit next to you even if you don’t know what to say
She’ll be your teammate and cheerleader at the same time
She loves you and is not afraid to show it
She knows you’re a processor, so it’s hard to speak sometimes
She knows that time is more important than things…
‘She’ is you. If you see yourself in these statements, you have made an impact in my life. If you are thinking, ‘that sounds like me’, but doubt it, don’t. Some sentences may be individualized, but others are meant for multiple people. And, if you think it’s not my life you’ve made an impact in, I can guarantee you that you have made a difference in someone’s life. I also have to say, I have some ‘he’ friends that fall into some of these categories.
My friends, “You are important. You are noticed. You are loved.”
Laura J Bembenek, Author 